Astrology Profiling Benefits
I'm not a dedicated student of astrology and I do NOT live my life on the basis of horoscopes found in the daily newspapers, or elsewhere. Limited knowledge of the subject has caused me to study human behaviour and things which have happened in my own life. There has been an uncanny accuracy in predictions for my star signs over the last few years; this has been noticed after the event, not through wishful thinking over a prediction.
Recently I had certain feelings about possibly searching for a future partner. I wrote a poem, "Kissed by an Angel", about those feelings, experienced in a dream. You can find it by clicking on its title,
Kissed by an Angel, at the foot of the window that opens.
I joined FilipinaHeart.com and have been contacted by many beautiful ladies of all ages. Only a few of these ladies are realistically potential partners. Using the limited details shown on their profiles I felt compelled to compare the potential of each lady, in order to decide which lady might be the best match. The main governing factors I used in selection are Religion, which is primarily Catholic (which I am not), and Astrological Personality matching.
First I checked Western astrology to read predictions for myself, and comparison with all other signs for compatibility. Prediction for my sign in matters of Love and Relationships suggest this to be a good time to search for a partner. My gut feeling had already made me feel this was right, before reading any astrology material. My birth sign is Gemini and the most likely match is generally believed to be with a lady born in Libra.
A recent questionaire I completed on another site suggests Leo as my strongest Zodiac Match. Although it did add, "your responses indicate there are a number of other astrological signs that you're highly compatible with". This is due to the complex nature of a twin star, such as Gemini (and Pisces), but I'll accept that Gemini can be complex at times. Maybe that's where my creativity comes from.
The results from my test also stated, "Beware! Not all Zodiac signs are a good match for you - and some could be disastrous". This I have found to be the case in a *work* environment.
My closest personal relationships in and out of work, mostly female and not all love partners (especially the men!), have been with Libra, Sagittarius, and Scorpio. My ex, who was born on the cusp of Leo and Virgo (22nd August 1946, in the transition from one sign to the next), was my wife for 21yrs, happy years until she chose to end it.
By the same token I have experienced friction with another Leo and a Virgo, so it goes to show that personalities do not always conform to what their horoscope or profile suggests. Astrology serves only as a rough guide; all my instincts are based on observation and experience in my own life - not from some book or chart.
When 2 star signs each have contradictory qualities in their profiles, and if a prediction for their potential to match is reduced, that doesn't mean it's the end of the world. Most likely the qualities in question will alternate between the couple at various times. At certain times, or under certain circumstances, Cancer might be more aggressive than Gemini; other times, or under different circumstances, it's the other way around.
In the above context, "aggressive" refers equally to swiftness of action as it does to character or personality. At times Gemini takes the lead with Cancer following, and vice versa at other times.
Astrological analysis is not an exact science. Environment, external circumstances, and personal relationships might affect an individual, and often do, so it can't be an exact science.
It would be a shame to put total faith in any prediction and reject what could be a very satisfying relationship for both parties. To make the most of any reading, your own or your potential partner's, you should look at other things you actually know about each other.
Better still, look at others around you of your own star sign, also those born under your potential partner's sign. Just doing this will reveal many things as to the accuracy of predictions, or the reliability of putting total trust in what the predictions say.
In particular, look at any negative signs in the Astrological analysis for your own sign, especially if your Personality profile was done.
No-one is perfect and, no matter how hard it might be to accept the fact, there will probably be a few areas where you might be awakened to your own shortcomings. This is one area where Astrological analysis can help a person recognise their own traits. Rectifying your negative traits will improve your chances of becoming more attractive to others.
Many factors need to be considered when choosing a potential match. Tangible factors are real, as opposed to Astrological analysis which is often a case of "hit or miss".
Physical attractiveness takes a high priority for some people, often governed by how they see their own attractiveness to others. This is often based on vanity and, whilst an attractive partner is a bonus, there are other far more important factors to consider. Visible beauty doesn't reveal inner beauty. A compatible mind will almost always prove to be a better match for a stable, long-term relationship than a beauty who's on a totally different wavelength.
Age difference might be a serious consideration for you. Financial status, fame, and / or social position in the older person might attract a potential partner of much younger years. These relationships can be successful, or they can turn into massive disappointments (most often for the person with the highest financial or social position).
Religion and spirituality can be the deciding factor for many people when choosing a potential partner. This will depend on how dogmatic the individuals are. If one party is a devout worshipper and attends services twice a day and 3 times on Sundays, in the misguided belief that just going to church makes them a better person, and the other party (although spiritual) never sets foot inside a place of worship, this is hardly likely to be a "marriage made in heaven"... if you excuse the pun.
On the other hand... if each party accepts the views, beliefs, and practices of the other party, and they both live a good life according to The Golden Rule, then religious difference should be irrelevant in the relationship. BUT.. this is something that must be agreed in advance of the relationship if the relationship is to stand any reasonable chance of long-term success.
Educational differences and /or Professional qualifications. It's a well-know fact that achievers gravitate toward achievers; to do any less might have a negative effect on the achiever within the partnership. Again, this is not the "be all and end all" of potential partner selection. Each must look to their own self and think how the future relationship might develop.
The party with the higher education or qualification might see some fascinating aspect in the potential partner, either intellectually, romantically, or purely sexually. They might feel a sense of nurturing and support toward the less qualified party, and yet feel that there might be something to be gained in their own life by partnering with them.
This is particularly true with those who have the ability to teach, even though they might not be a teacher academically. Partnering with someone on a different educational plane can lend the opportunity for both to gain; each teaching the other whilst each learns from the other.
Other items for consideration are family and /or cultural background. These factors could affect your relationship as well but, as with educational differences, such differences in family background, especially cultural as the 2 often go together, can lend the opportunity for both to gain; each teaching the other whilst each learns from the other.
This is especially true where East meets West. Much benefit can be gained by both parties, with the Eastern partner, often female, learning from the typically materialistic Westerner. Likewise, the Western partner seizes the opportunity to embrace the serenity, spirituality, and family values of his Eastern lady; values which are rapidly fading in the Western culture.
One aspect rarely mentioned with sufficient emphasis is the magnetic attraction between 2 parties. This magnetic attraction doesn't describe your individual natures but it's a strong force which many potential partners feel, even though they might not know the phenomenon as being magnetic attraction. Some call the feeling "love", but it's early days for that label.
However, magnetic attraction is a precursor to the potential for love to develop and, as such, is far too important a tangible aspect to be disregarded or treated lightly.
Others call it a "gut feeling", and that is a far more apt description. A gut feeling is felt in the solar plexus, the ganglion of nerves located just below the rib cage. This is a nerve centre akin to the brain, almost like a second brain, and gut feelings are rarely wrong.
Whatever interpretation you place on Astrological analysis, just remember this... it's only a guide - and certainly not cast in stone.
To get the most out of any Astrological analysis, whether it's based on your Personality, Future Predictions, Love, Sex or Partnerships, there will be a cost. You won't have to mortgage your house and it could prove very interesting for the small cost involved.
Astrology, performed by an expert with a good track record, can be revealing and beneficial, even if it's only useful for correcting your own negative traits. A good astrologer will consult charts and devote time and knowledge to making the best astrological analysis based on the information you provide. This entails you giving the exact date AND time of your birth, plus location at time of birth, and any other information they ask for.
Of course, with this being the technology age, predictions and profiles are mainly a product of software these days. Most places will offer a partial reading for Free, or give a full length sample, prepared for some celebrity usually. Try a Free Profile reading and see what you think of it. They're really quite interesting, and upgrading to the full version is cheap enough.
Most people are unaware of the other important signs in their natal chart. A full Astrological analysis usually gives thorough details of your other signs and what effect those signs and their related planets might have on your personality and potential. Some horoscopes, in a full reading, will give your Birth Moon, Rising sign, and the sign present in Mid-heaven, along with your Sun sign or Birth sign. Most people only know one sign... their Sun sign or Birth sign.
Personal observation, and the quiet observation of those around you, can reveal much about personalities and relationships. But you must take into account such things as the age of the individual and, if you've known them for years, any changes in their personality over the years. Such study will give you an insight into human behaviour that could stand you in good stead for years to come. Not least, help you form your own opinion on the potential for a person you like or admire to become a future partner.
We are all unique; not one size will fit all. So it is with Astrological analysis, whatever the cost and whomever the analyst.
My Sun sign is Gemini with Cancer rising, Aries in mid-heaven and birth moon in Taurus. Born a few hours later, possibly minutes later, and the configuration might have been much different. Thus providing a different set of predictions and a different Personality analysis. Studying my own full analysis, compiled many years ago, has revealed that Cancer influence, or characteristics, are about even with the Gemini side.
Another thing about my own readings is the difference in my personality over the years. Whilst some negative traits remain, knowledge gained through living and observation has provided the means to reduce those negatives almost to the point of irrelevance.
Romance, sex, and sexuality can be a stumbling block for some potential pairings. This is one area where Natal Readings for each potential partner can give an indication toward the likely tendencies of each person.
Some signs are more inclined to Romance, whilst other signs are more inclined to raw sex. There's a difference in the definitions of Romance and Sex, and Sexuality is something different again. Where the difference in the definitions becomes a difference in actual behaviour or expectations, compatability will most likely be an issue.
Needless to say but, if neither partner is strongly inclined to Romance, Sex and/ or Sexuality, or view them only important as a means of procreation, then they might well be an ideal match for sharing a life and relationship that lacks passion. Sounds pretty dull to me, but to each their own. At least they would be a match, rather than each living a solitary existence. Having researched Western astrology I turned to the Chinese. You can read Astrology Profiling - Chinese Style on the next page by clicking the bold text.
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